Mon. July 28, 2025 – still working at the BOL…

By on July 28th, 2025 in culture, decline and fall, lakehouse

Hot and humid, probably clear and sunny. Brain boiling hot in the sun. Yesterday wasn’t crazy hot but the humidity made it very unpleasant to be working outdoors. I spent most of the day in soaking wet clothes.

I did get some of the maintenance done on the mower. I didn’t have the right washer to use as a spacer with the new front wheels and tires, so I put the old one back on. It only leaks slowly and was fine for the day. I sharpened the blades, they were in rough shape but the grass was so long I didn’t want to abuse a new set. The cheap chinese blades don’t hold up for very long, but they are easy to sharpen. I broke them mower deck drive belt half way through, but I had a spare in the shed. I can get the deck on and off in minutes since I’ve had so much practice. I also replaced the blade engagement cable. Nothing wrong with the cable, but the plastic end that makes it all work was worn out. Poor design choice. Or not, if you think they want you to spend money replacing stuff.

We did get a spatter of rain while I was cutting, but not enough to stop.

There was a bit of putting stuff away, and some organizing, but mostly the day was spent working on the mower, or using it.

Today I’ll finish trimming the yard, and if it’s not raining, I’ll run the mower over everything again in mulching mode to get rid of the rows and rows of grass cuttings. Maybe I’ll do the park too.

I’ve got quite a bit stacked up here, but not all of it is well organized or put away. That will be an ongoing project.

Always be working. And stacking.

nick

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Sun. July 27, 2025 – sure is damp up here

By on July 27th, 2025 in culture, decline and fall, lakehouse

Damp and a bit cooler at the BOL than the last week in Houston. It was very nice last night on the dock, 78F with a gentle breeze off the water cooling it even more. It’ll be steamy today with all the moisture in the grass and dirt, and forecast for sunny skies.

I did a bunch of stuff yesterday. Moved some stuff around at the house, putting stuff away and sorting stuff. Loaded the truck for the stuff coming up here. And then I did something that has been on the list for a while. Since I was already soaked to the skin, I figured I’d spend a few minutes working outside, cementing some flagstones back into place on the front walk. I think I spent about 2 hours total and I’m not done filling in the “grout” between the stones (which has dissolved and been blasted away). I got the worst of it done, and fixed the biggest tripping hazard.

Oh, and I fixed my phone too.

Today I’ll unload the truck, and do some maintenance on the mower. I’ve got a new blade engagement cable and new blades to install, as well as new wheels and tires for the front. If it’s running and the grass is dry enough, I’ll mow after that. If not, it’s gonna really suck when I do get a chance to mow. It’s already way too long to cut easily. Another week of growth and it will be agricultural, and not something I can easily do with the riding mower.

I’ve also got to do some measuring and planning for my big week up here alone doing heavy equipment stuff. I intend to do some grading, install a gravel walkway, move some sand to the lake and level the leftover dirt piles from my previous work. Some sand and better dirt will likely end up on the garden in the hope of loosening up the clay soil, and some firewood needs to be moved… There are other things that a skid steer and mini excavator will make easier too. And if I have the time, I’ll do some drainage work for the HOA park. Tasks expand to fill the time available.

Stack. And always be working to improve your situation, right?

nick

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Sat. July 26, 2025 – probably heading to the BOL

By on July 26th, 2025 in culture, decline and fall

Raining and wet? Or we get a break and things dry out? Dunno what’s going to happen in Houston this weekend but I hope to get time to mow the lawn at the BOL. All the rain makes the grass grow like crazy.

Friday I avoided most of my obligations and list. I did one pickup. The rain made it impossible to do some of the stuff I had hoped, and malaise made the rest difficult. Some domestic bliss happened. One kid went to nursemaid her friend, the other was babysitting. Left the house kinda quiet. Wife decided she didn’t want to drive to the BOL in the rain and dark by herself. She might even stay home today as she dislikes a quick trip up and back.

I have to go though. If I can cut the grass, I have to to keep on top of it. It is twice as hard and takes twice as long if I let it go. Same goes for treating for fireants. It’s a constant battle and if you let them get a toehold they’ll have a foothold in a week. I’ve also got a bunch of stuff to take up and get out of the library/toy room.

I’m also a bit worried about my buddy and want to see him and his wife and get a feeling for how they are doing. Between the cancer treatments for both of them and the death of their grandson, I am amazed they can get out of bed. Country folk are tough, but that’s a lot of burden to carry.

Hopefully, I’ll get out of town fairly early, without getting rained on, and I can get stuff done today at the BOL. If not, there is tomorrow.

Work smart, stack.

nick

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Fri. July 25, 2025 – what, already?

By on July 25th, 2025 in culture, decline and fall

Hot and humid. It’s been getting over 100F in the afternoon for several days now. The humidity, while high, seems like it’s maybe a bit lower lately? Dunno, the sun roasting my head had me soaked in sweat in only a few minutes.

I was up early yesterday and still spent all morning at the computer. Spent almost all afternoon doing pickups too. Not quite, I was home by 3pm and did some domestic bliss, cleaning, and sorting. Still, not the most productive day. Did meet another auction buyer that I had a nice chat with about real estate and Houston neighborhoods.

Today I’ve got to do a bunch of stuff around the house. I don’t think I’ll be doing pickups but who knows for sure. There are a couple I could do, but at least one seller will wait until next week.

I made a little progress organizing and putting stuff away. Very little.

I did pick up a couple of audio book CDs. Jack Reacher short stories, and Prince Caspian. The last time I listened to the Narnia books it was the set produced by Focus on the Family – fully produced and voice acted, not ‘abridged’ as much as ‘adapted’. This version is just a single female reader and unabridged. I like it. Language in common usage sure has degraded. And so has Jolly Olde… as both boys were waiting for the train back to school, and they both have pocketknives.

I’m not going to the BOL today, D1 asked to stay home so she can babysit, and I agreed. We’ll go up Saturday morning. W and D2 will head up tonight. That’s the plan anyway. We know about plans…

I’ve got a whole load of stuff to stack at the BOL. Make sure you have stacks somewhere besides your home, if you can swing it.

nick

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Thur. July 24, 2025 – more of the same and at no additional charge!

By on July 24th, 2025 in culture, decline and fall

Still hot. Still humid. Over 100F yesterday afternoon. I got my weather station working here at the house, but not the display in my office, so I’ll have real numbers again soon. Just have to put the outdoor part back up. I’m sure today will be pretty much like yesterday. Maybe with a touch more moisture from the sky.

I did my normal morning stuff. Then I did some pickups. Got the times wrong and missed two that I’ll have to get today. Hopefully, as one of them doesn’t have pickup times for the rest of the week. Having to get the kid at 3pm put the same crimp in my schedule as a normal school day.

While I didn’t get all the pickups done, I did get to Costco. Picked up some lamb chops for dinner, and a couple of things for the BOL this weekend. W likes to have more lunch meat choices than I normally have on hand, and I also grabbed a bag of frozen mixed veg. I’ll repack the veg in single meal sizes and take most to the BOL. It’s an easy way to get something very close to fresh veg.

Dinner was lamb chops grilled on cast iron in the kitchen. I’d normally grill them outside, but it was so hot I didn’t want to fire up the BBQ. The result was very nice, using the hot pan method (crazy hot dry pan, then add oil and reduce heat to cook.) Easy clean up too. Frozen veg tossed in a saute’ pan and some garlic naan from the freezer filled out the plates. Honestly, I should be eating out of the freezers, but I didn’t plan ahead and thaw anything, so fresh from Costco was a quick choice. From prep to plate was about 15 minutes.

I picked up a small Lodge cast iron wok in an auction and I’m looking forward to giving that a try some time soon.

D1 was diagnosed with some anemia so cooking more with iron isn’t a bad thing.

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I decided to order a battery and back cover for my phone. Total was $34 and it’s a straightforward job. I don’t really want to spend time moving to a new phone right now. Paul’s experience and previous moves combined, and I’m thinking it’s less time to fix the old phone than get everything set up on a new on. I do have a Galaxy Note II handy, but when I started to move to it last night, I can’t find all my SIM card stuff and the Note needs an adapter to use my current smaller SIM. That was part of the motivation to just fix the old phone. One thing about using older tech, the repairs are usually cheap. And the phone still sells for ~$120-150 so I’m not spending more on parts than it’s worth.

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It is all distraction and time sink when I need to be more focused.

Preemptively replacing the balloon that the old battery has become, before it burns me, the SIM and memory card, or my whole house or car seems to fall under “always be working to improve your situation.”

At least it makes me feel better to think about it that way.

Throw some stuff on the stacks too…

nick

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Wed. July 23, 2025 – so there I was…

By on July 23rd, 2025 in culture, decline and fall

Hot and humid. Sunny and bright. It was over 101F in my driveway, even in the shade by late afternoon yesterday and today looks like it will be as hot. It’s summer in Houston.

Yesterday I did my stuff, letting the kid drive me around while I offered suggestions about things she needs to work on. Talked a bit more about some of the traffic and car tracking infrastructure that is in place. More along the theme of hidden layers of the universe. Afterwards she washed and cleaned the car.

I spent a bit of time putting some stuff away and sorting, while getting dinner on the table. I warmed up the costco heat and eat Tacos Al Pastor, and got some condiments ready to go with it. And took D2 to and from her T/Th activity. I spent too much time doing pickups. I’m starting to internalize that now. Hopefully I can turn that into not doing pickups every day.

Baby steps. I’m in a rut and my habits have morphed past useful and good to something a bit detrimental. That’s only if you consider that I have stuff I need/want to do instead of doing pickups. Which I do.

Today I’ll be challenged to get stuff done and still be at school in time to move the kid around.

There is always something that needs attention. I’m not as good at setting priorities and getting them done as I used to be. It’s a little discouraging. And a lot self centered and maudlin.

But on the other hand, time is ticking. I heard from an old friend yesterday, that a mutual friend had died. I was thinking of both of them last week and her memorial took place over the weekend. I didn’t even know she had been sick, as we’d lost touch years ago. She was a couple of years younger than me, but the big C got her. The list of people that I know personally that have crossed over to whatever is next is getting longer. I suppose that’s the way of things if you live long enough, and averages mean that someone has to go younger than me for everyone who holds on longer than me. It’s put me in a mood though.

My momentum stalled out. Time to get it moving again. Always be working. And stack.

nick

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Tues. July 22, 2025 – faults, I got ’em

By on July 22nd, 2025 in culture, decline and fall

Another hot and mostly dry day, with high humidity. Yesterday was a scorcher by afternoon, and stayed hot well into the evening. It was still in the 90sF when we had a late dinner. Today should be the same. The local .gov had the highway advisory signs warning of heavy rain and possible flooding on Saturday. I expect well be seeing flood warnings with every drop of rain for the next year at least.

I mostly did auction stuff in the morning, still keeping in mind my new desire to limit pickup days. Then D1 drove me around town doing a pickup and grocery shopping in the afternoon. She’s improving but still brakes too late, and her situational awareness needs work. She doesn’t seem to be able to keep three directions or steps in mind at the same time though. Thinks like “stay on the Beltway to US 59 north, then exit at Kingwood Blvd.” IDK if that’s from the online stuff changing her brain structure, or just her nature, but it’s unsettling and I’ll be working on it. I wonder if any of her schooling has worked with algorithms and figuring out steps toward a goal?

Driving a car, or a boat, or just navigating through life takes the ability to predict the near future and react to it, taking steps to manage where you will be physically and metaphorically. Living in the moment is ok, and even necessary and desirable for some things, but humans don’t live in a constant now. Or at least we don’t normally. Or didn’t.

We did have a good conversation about the “hidden” layers around us, triggered by an outlaw biker passing us and almost getting into an altercation with another driver. (Full patch Bandido with his b!tch riding pillion in a patched vest. Not someone you want to engage with.) Fraternal organizations, secret societies, alumni groups, outlaw culture, even prepping and LMIs all got touched on, with emphasis on seeing the “flags” that people fly to identify their affiliate groups. I’m hoping it spurred some thought and will entice her to look around at the environment and actually SEE some of it. Since the kids were little we played games like “spot the cameras” and “is this a good neighborhood or not (and why?)” Hopefully I’ll get a chance to pass along more stuff about the way the world works that will help her navigate around some of the pitfalls.

Speaking of seeing what’s around us, there was a hawk in my tree this afternoon, perched on a limb and quite agitated. A squirrel was about three feet away looking at it, and then the squirrel shot by the hawk, running on the UNDERSIDE of the limb. The hawk hung around long enough for my wife to get a picture with her new iphone. We don’t see a lot of hawks in our neighborhood, despite a neighbor telling me one swooped a squirrel right out of his front yard. I do see them flying overhead occasionally.

Oh, a big fat possum ambled by me when I was out having my little fire. I made a ‘tssking’ noise and he turned around to look at me calmly before ambling on. Body as big as a basketball. I think a lot of local wildlife visits my little water feature throughout the day and night. The frogs are starting their mating calls and are quite loud about it…

The world is full of hidden mysteries all around us.

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Today I’ll do some paperwork, move some stuff around, and then do some pickups in the afternoon. Kid starts band camp on Wednesday, so that will be me getting up early again.

I was going to write about my talent for self sabotage today, but I’ll leave that to another time. Do what you can with what you’ve got, and always be working to improve your situation. Even if that means disconnecting for a bit to look around you in wonder.

nick

(and of course, you should be stacking.)

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Mon. July 21, 2025 – slack. That is me.

By on July 21st, 2025 in culture, decline and fall

Hot and humid again, with sunshine roasting the brain of anyone unfortunate enough to be out in it. Which is why I stayed in on Saturday. That and sloth. And a book being really good.

Didn’t get much done. I have a problem maintaining my forward momentum. That and I foolishly didn’t get enough sleep and wasn’t feeling well.

I’ll do better today. Pinky swear.

If all you can do is stack, then stack.
n

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Sun. July 20, 2025 – nothing pithy to say

By on July 20th, 2025 in culture, decline and fall

Hot and humid, again, but maybe clear instead of partly cloudy. It was mostly clear Saturday, with some clouds, and a tiny bit of water from the sky. I wouldn’t have noticed but the grass and plants were wet when I did some work in the back yard.

That work was some tree pruning. I had done a bunch in spring, so it wasn’t too bad. I mostly touched up the new growth. I did some small pruning on the apple tree too. It currently has one apple the size of a racquet ball. That’s more than any other year, but less than I was hoping for with the blossoms all over.

I alternated outdoor and indoor stuff to try to keep cool. It was crazy hot in the sun. Most of what I got accomplished was organizing and cleaning in the ‘library’ or ‘toy room’. I had a bunch of filament and printer stuff all over, and I put it away in a sideboard cabinet. I finished putting together the cabinet too. It’s still a mess in that room, but I made a lot of progress on a non-critical task, but one that has been poking me in the eye and spirit for too long.

I did a bit of reading throughout the day as I was cooling down, and spent far too long sitting outside reading last night.

It doesn’t sound like a productive day but it actually was.

If you can’t stack, be working on improving your situation.

Today I’ll continue in the same vein.
n

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Sat. July 19, 2025 – Saturday, in the park, I think it was the … 19th… of July

By on July 19th, 2025 in culture, decline and fall, march to war

And it’s hot again. Overcast most of yesterday,but still hot, and humid to match. Probably got more of that coming today. Now it’s really summer.

So I did some things. Drove around, met with people, put stuff in my truck. Took it out in various places. Moved some stuff around in the house. Put a thing back together for sale on ebay. Went out for dinner. We get a 25% discount because D2 isn’t here… which is one way of looking at it, I guess.

Because of reasons, detailed yesterday, I don’t have a new phone yet. My old phone battery is so swollen it pushed the back off my phone… it’s about twice as thick as it should be. Since I don’t want any fires in my pants, I think I’ll find an old phone to swap my sim to today. It’s seriously scary how swollen it is and I didn’t realize because I just thought something was wrong with the case. Yikes.

I did change my phone plan to a “senior” 55 plus plan. It’s $40/month instead of $72, and has unlimited talk, text, and data- although they can throttle me if the network is congested. I typically use 2-3 GB of my current 4GB plan per month, so unlimited won’t help much. I can add one of the kids on a second line, both will drop to $35, and the kid will appreciate the unlimited data. I wouldn’t have known about the plan if T Mobile didn’t send me a flyer for their 55+ plan, which prompted me to call ATT. ATT will just let you keep paying higher rates even if they have newer, cheaper plans. There are a couple of small differences, Autopay has to draft from a bank account instead of credit card, and I can’t get paper bills anymore. Despite the payment and billing changes, saving ~$360 a year seems worth it.

FWIW, if we change the ATT fiber bill to my name we’ll save another $18/mo because of the bundle. We’re currently on the cheapest and least capable plan, 1 gig a month for $89. Speedof.me says we’re getting 750/500 at my desk. The router test says 920/900. If there’s no reason not to change the names, I’ll get the fiber in my name and bring the savings to ~$500 a year. That’s worth doing.

Today I might have a pickup if I won anything from an estate auction. I’ll know if an invoice shows up in my email. There wasn’t anything when I went to bed. That’s good, because I’ve decided I’m spending too much time driving around picking stuff up. That’s where all my time is going and it contributes to me not getting stuff done. I can change that. I think. Dunno if I’m strong enough to resist the pull of a bargain. I’ll try to start limiting which days I do pickups.

It’s tempting to buy all the things, since I stack all the things, but ultimately I need time to assimilate some of the things, and to actually stack the things.

All while working to improve my situation… get to work!

nick

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