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Tues. Jan. 20, 2026 – to absent friends…

Today is the anniversary of Robert Bruce Thompson’s death. Is it even possible that it was 8 years ago? So much has changed in our world, and here, yet so much still remains. Being prepared is better than not. We can get through disasters, and life will go on. There is an ‘after’. What you do ‘before’ makes a great deal of difference in what ‘after’ looks like. Community makes everything better.

Raise a glass for our absent friends- gone, but not forgotten. Still present, like the ripples in the pond. They live on through the changes they made in us, the people around them.

nick

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Mon. Jan. 12, 2026 – Ah Monday, how do I love thee? Let me count the ways. 0

Cold again, warming later. National forecast has it clear for the next day or two. But it will still be damp. It got chilly last night, and was cool all day in the shade. I wore a hat and sweatshirt to work outdoors.

That’s for what little work I did. I did take in the last two sets of Christmas decorations. And I wrapped up all the extension cords and light strings I had waiting around after taking them down days ago. I also put stuff back where it belongs after the tree guys moved it all out of the way. So not a lot of work outside, but some small things got done. I don’t really decorate for St Valentine’s Day, other than some cute gnomes and a couple of indoor things for the kids.

Today I’ll keep poking at the office and house stuff. I’m going to try to get a load from storage and a few bins from the house over to the shop. I need to do a couple of listings too. And I can do a pickup but will probably wait until Tuesday so I can combine trips. I bought a couple of small things for the kids.

My buying has slowed WAY down. It’s a combination of needing less (since I’ve bought so much) and that the auctions haven’t had a ton of good stuff lately. Even the sketchy auction that looks most like some sort of money laundry is listing cheap items, and listing them individually, when it used to have a lot of big and expensive items, and case lots. I don’t think anyone is dumb enough to pay $1 plus fees for a 68c can of cat food– especially when the MSRP is in the auction listing.

It’s looking a bit like when stores would put 20 identical items on the shelves to fill in the gaps where there should be other product that they just couldn’t get. Which our HEB was doing in a couple of departments last time I was there. Not a good sign if it wasn’t just a bad timing issue, btw.

I’m interested to hear if anyone else is noticing shortages or empty shelves.

On a personal note, doctor visits have eliminated a couple of concerns, and we might have found the root cause of something that was unpleasant for me and it’s trivial to fix. We’ll know for sure in another week, and when the labs confirm it, but I was accidentally taking a massive overdose of vitamin B12. That was causing some immediate symptoms, and some long term bad effects. IDK how it happened, I think I changed brands and the one I’ve been using for several years is about 10 times stronger than the one I was taking when I started (and when I’d decided on 6 tablets.) I never noticed or did the math over until just recently when I discovered the issue.

Meds, supplements, preps, and routines all need to be periodically reviewed. It’s easy to make a mistake or fall into a habit, or to have circumstances change; and what was a good thing can become a bad thing. Or you could just be spending time, money, and resources on something that is no longer beneficial.

Stack, but also review to make sure you are still doing what you need to do.

nick

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Thur. Dec. 25, 2025 – Christmas Day

I wish you all a Merry Christmas, and hope the joy, hopefulness, and spirit of the season finds a place in your heart.
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Warm and wet here at the BOL. And cool and wet, which is pretty unpleasant. Still, it’s not 25F and a howling snowstorm… so it’s ok.

Did the rest of my stuff, then loaded up and finally got to the BOL. Spent some time putting stuff away, while W and D2 shot pool. D1 went back to sleep.

Had a nice meal. Opened most of the presents and got some useful things. Everyone seemed pleased with their gifts.

Today we will open the rest of the gifts, empty our stockings and gorge on the candy, and eventually have a nice meal. Duck is on today’s menu.

I’m hoping everyone has a little bit of joy today, but if not, know that you are still loved, and a part of the community. Talk to someone if you need to.

I’m stacking good memories, and hoping they are enough to get me through the bad times.

Find your joy where you can, and treasure it.

nick

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Fri. Dec. 12, 2025 – busy busy day

Cool and warm, wet and dry. Clear and cloudy. Oh not really. Pretty much like yesterday with a cold start, but warm later. Clear and a little breezy. Nice in other words.

I did some stuff yesterday. Not everything I had hoped to do, but I did get a couple of things done. Tried to drop the truck at the repair place, but he was too busy. Wouldn’t get to it until Monday, so I kept it. At least I’ll have it for pickups today.

Today I’ve got widely spaced pickups. Lots of driving. Some of it will be worth it, some not. I did get 5 buckets of Wise freeze dried food for $6/bucket… I think. I might have raised my bid at some point. That pickup is north, the other is south, and one in the middle is east. No range anxiety with a gas truck… Oh, and somewhere in that I need to stop by Honeybaked and pickup my ham for tomorrow’s party. In fact, thinking about that, I’ll probably rearrange my trip to go east, then south, then back north to get the ham, and on to the freezedrieds last. Can’t even pick them up until 3pm.

I’ll need to wrap my white elephant gifts and stop by my shop for some welding gear too. D1 is going to a local guy who volunteered to give some kids a quick lesson in welding on Saturday. Kid’s gonna be busy as she has work afterwards. Welcome to life, where there’s never enough time to do it all.

We can but try.

Stack all the things.

nick

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Wed. Dec. 3, 2025 – more stuff to do, less time to do it.

Cold again. Mid 40sF and not getting much warmer during the day. Add in grey sky and possible rain, and today could be cold and teh sux. Yesterday was a clear, sunny day, and with long pants and long sleeves, I got by without a jacket for a couple of hours in the afternoon. Probably won’t be that way today.

I did my pickups, after some computer stuff in the morning. I’ve got more to do today. I also hit the HEB for some veg. I did get 10 pounds of pork shoulder for carnitas and pulled pork. Beef is crazy expensive. Choice tenderloin steaks (filet mignon) were $23/pound. Hamburger was $5.50 for 73/27. Other than the shoulder, I am eating meat out of the freezers.

Today I’ve got stuff to do around the house, of course. I’ve got a choice of doing a couple of pickups too. I don’t want to forget about the generator I need to make a special trip to get either. W was thinking of going to the BOL this weekend so I might finally get some stuff out of the house and my shop. It would be nice to have the room ready for the tree tonight…

We’ll see what we get to and what gets done. There’s always something. Stack.

nick

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Sun. Nov. 30, 2025 – Ah, merriment and fantasy tropes ahead

Cool but not cold, but certainly damp. Then cold later in the day. It never really did rain yesterday, although several times moisture from the sky convinced me it was coming. I hope today will be dry as I’ll be mostly outdoors.

Didn’t get as much done yesterday as I’d hoped. Felt a bit out of sorts from the meds until they flushed out completely. And it is our vacation/holiday so I’m not super motivated to bust @ss. I did do some stuff with my dashcam for the Ranger, although I didn’t finish. Cleaned and moved stuff in the house too. Ate some leftovers.

Today youngest is headed to the Texas Renaissance Festival with friends in the morning, and I will attend with lovely wife later in the day. I want to see the Christmas decor and lights after dark. Kid is less interested. So we’ll overlap for a bit, then some will stay with us and some will leave early. It’s the last day, so I’m also hoping there might be some bargains to be had. The TxRenFair is a big deal, been going and growing for 51 years and it’s big, physically big. I enjoyed it last time I went and while I’m not looking forward to going today because of weather and work, I am glad to be going this year.

Oh, I don’t dress up. I will take a leather bag, and my pipe, and probably wear a hat, and if I had a leather duster, I’d wear it, but since I don’t… I try not to be obnoxiously modern. There is a lot going on besides trad Renfair stuff, lots of fantasy fandoms get incorporated. A ranger type with a quarterstaff wouldn’t be out of place. My staff is at the lake though.

I’m mainly interested in craft demos and handmade stuff. There is some of it, and some of good quality if you look past the cheap tourist stuff. And my past career in event production is always looking at something like this with a critical and interested eye. Of course, the ribeye steak on a stick, or as a sandwich, is REALLY good.

I’ll be stacking up some good memories and some time with W and D2. Stack what you can.

nick

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Sat. Nov. 29, 2025 – no rest for the weary, or the wicked

Cool to start, maybe getting nicer, maybe getting stormier… Supposedly some big storming is possible. It was certainly windy yesterday and cool. I don’t think it got above mid 70sF.

Yesterday was mostly calm, and uneventful with a little bit of work getting done, mostly trips to my shop with stuff from the house. I did do one pickup and a trash run. Oh, and there was the accident I got in on my way home. It’s in the comments yesterday. I’m fine, and the truck looks fine, but both will probably have at least some hidden damage. We’ll see over the next couple of days.

Today, if I’m feeling ok, I’ve got some work to do on the truck. Item the first is installing a new dashcam, since the one I have in there failed miserably. You had ONE JOB… And if I’m in the truck working, I’ll see about installing a stereo and maybe running some wire for the ham radio too.

I’d like to maybe get some lights or other decoration started on the house too. Sounds pretty ambitious for me lately.

Oh, and refilling some of the 1 pound propane bottles for the MrHeaters. I’ve gotten in the habit of sitting out by the pond for a while and I like it. It’s not as good as the lake but it does take the edge off.

Some quiet time is pretty important for most people, but men especially. Stack some if you can.

nick

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Thur. Nov. 27, 2025 – Thanksgiving day, US

Cold. By Texas standards anyway. It was in the 50sF last night and damp, so it felt even cooler. Probably it will be cold, then cool, then warm today with sun and clear skies. Nice.

I spent yesterday doing small things on the list. I got several done, and kept moving forward. Baby steps are still steps, right?? For an unhurried day, there was a lot going on. We even had some carnivore drama in the back yard to deal with.

D1 had a date, and the guy seems nice. She had a good night and was beaming. Her previous dates have been pretty lackluster, so I’m happy for her, but I’m still a dad with my little girl going out with boys. Kid is tall, in good shape and confident. Nice change from the emo simps.

Between D1, D2, and their friends, I’m coming to think that their emotional maturity is a couple of years behind where I’d expect it to be. Certainly it’s behind where my generation was. There are a couple of reasons that could be, 2 years of pandemic and social media are the obvious possibilities. And of course, we’re mostly talking about middle and upper middle class white kids. The hispanic kids have a different experience and point of view from what I can see.

It will be interesting to watch how this generation grows up.

But, that’s all for later. Today we take the time to pause and give thanks. There are always things to be thankful for, even at our darkest hours, and Thanksgiving Day gives an opportunity to stop, take stock, and find those things.

I’m thankful for Bob giving me this opportunity, and for Barbara’s faith and trust. I’m thankful for all of you who stop by and share your lives and thoughts with me and the rest of this community. I’m thankful for the world we live in, for the beauty of the natural world and everything in it. I’m thankful for the opportunity to love and be loved, and for my family and the support they give. I’m thankful to be alive. When I was young, I never thought I’d see 26 years of age, and here I am 33 years past that point.

There have been good times and bad during those years, but they made me who I am and I’m ok with that. They have all been a gift; one I’m glad to share with the people in my life. I look forward to many more, no matter the challenges and heartbreak that may be ahead of us.

Thank you all,

nick

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Wed. Nov. 19, 2025 – volunteering today

Warmer. Damper. Maybe wetter. We’ll see. It was 71F and very damp when I went to sleep. During the day it was very nice. Some clouds, but no rain. Hoping for more of the same today.

I did some stuff. Went to my client’s house to pick up my check and look at something else for him. Solved a tech issue while I was there. The Christmas light guys had left some connections in the mud and they tripped a GFCI that took out my wireless link from the gate back to the house. The first question when troubleshooting should always be “what changed”. Of course if you are really coming in blind, the first question should be “did it work before?” THEN you ask what changed.

I followed that up with three pickups in the southwest of Houston, and then home. Leftovers for dinner and kid taxi service took up most of the rest of the evening.

I did sit out for a tiny little fire and a book, and the possum came along the same route as before to get a drink from the ‘pond’. Then he departed without ever looking at me. The pond must be on his patrol route for every night. I’d bet there are some humans (probably walking dogs) that have a patrol route ever night too. I might have to enable some of the AI features on my newest camera and see if I get a log of any pedestrian traffic.

And maybe I should look at some of my commercial WAPs to see if there is a ‘presence’ log that captures passing wifi or blutooth traffic. I’ve had building something to do that on my low priority list for a long time. Two instances have already happened, the teens stealing from cars, and the mail thief, where it might have been useful to see what their car or phones are named…

So many things. So little time and motivation.

Today I’m helping my wife at the middle school theater. I’ll do some of the sound notes from last year, and help her with installing some other donated equipment. Should be able to get done by late morning. Might have to follow up another day. I’ve got pickups in the afternoon, and moving another load from storage to the shop on my calendar. We’ll see if that happens.

Meatspace and community involvement is important. The appearance of being normal folks, and being helpful to others is a good thing to have on your side, no matter who you are. It probably won’t save you if things go horribly wrong, but it might smooth out some smaller issues. Can’t hurt, and feels good. Win-win.

Always be working to improve your situation. Sometimes that is relationships. Sometimes it great big heaping stacks…

nick

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Sun. Nov. 9, 2025 – at home, hopefully making progress on the list

Cool, but not cold, and certainly as damp as can be. We had morning fog/heavy mist/early morning low clouds Friday, and in some places on Saturday. We might have some again today. After that, it was gorgeous Fall weather.

I did my non-prepping hobby meeting and quarterly swapmeet yesterday morning. I hadn’t had a lot of sleep, and the meeting went long, with a long Board meeting afterwards, mostly related to the web site and regularizing some stuff that had grown organically and was as krufty as 40 year old software. Volunteer organizations are manned by volunteers with different skills, experience, and levels of commitment.

Often, if something works, even if just barely, there is a LOT of momentum and resistance to changing. In this case, it’s been over a year since I moved our web stuff to a modern host and platform, but I hadn’t touched the related IT of payment systems. I’ve been paying for the hosting because it’s easier than just about anything else, and isn’t that expensive. The guy who handles our credit card machine and processing has been doing much the same, even though he’s not the Treasurer. The paypal account is ‘owned’ by a guy who moved across the country, and we can’t change passwords or anything else related to the account because the email addy or phone number for the 2 factor authentication has been long lost. People have been using their personal email accounts for org business, and those Board positions change every year…

I was a bit surprised how resistant people were to the simple idea of having dedicated emails for board positions, that would move when the positions change hands, and could be used as the official point of contact for new paypal and credit processing accounts. It’s a change in the way they are used to managing, and they didn’t want another email addy to check. In the end, we’ll be doing a limited number of new emails, and the Treasurer will establish new Paypal and CC accounts linked to the new emails instead of individuals.

I think it’s sensible and straightforward, especially as all the online services are moving to 2 factor, and it captures all the email chains for official business. From a business continuity standpoint, it makes more sense too, as we’ve already experienced what happens when someone personally tied to the infrastructure leaves the group. I must have done a poor job of communicating the issues and benefits because it took far longer and more talk to get the changes approved than I expected. Herding cats comes to mind.

Meatspace baby. Interacting with other people definitely has challenges and costs, but the rewards are there too. It’s a bit intimidating that whatever solutions I put in place or cause to happen will probably still be in use a decade from now, just like the current kludge-fest that I want to replace has been.

This place has and had something similar happen when Bob got sick. I don’t think we’d be here today if Bob hadn’t already set up my (and a couple of other peoples’) access, and given us permission to participate on that higher level. It’s been my privilege to do so and to continue to do so.

As this year winds down, take a look at whatever organizations or communities you are involved in, and think about continuity. Maybe make a plan, or let some other people know the things they might need to know. Do the same for your personal life. At a minimum, a list of accounts, passwords, and their relevance to you should be accessible to the right people.

Whatever can’t continue forever, won’t. And that includes us and the things we participate in.

Do some stacking too. Whatever might ease a transition…

nick

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